Secrets of Staying Together – Believing
If it aint’ workin‘ I’m outta there!
Look, if it doesn’t work, we’re obviously not mean to be together, and so we split! It’s unfortunate, but it happens!
Have you heard it said? What was your reaction when you heard that harsh line?
Have you said it yourself? Is that actually close to where you sit on the subject, in your heart of hearts?
Did you start out with that kind of mindset? Have you justified that mindset with rationalisations like this?
Well the statistics are against us, aren’t they? It’s gotta happen to somebody, so it COULD be us!
Attitude is EVERYTHING
We know that our attitude impacts on how we behave. The kid who got told he was dumb in the early classroom, was not likely to be aiming for a professorship. More likely he couldn’t wait to get out of 
school and away from the challenge.
The same applies to relationships.
Not only do you have to believe that your relationship will last for the "forever" you vowed, you also have to believe in your ability to create a healthy relationship.
The FIRST key to Successful Relationships is Believing in them!
The Return on Investment (ROI) for Believing
If you BELIEVE that your relationship is forever, then you will do more to keep it that way.
If you BELIEVE that you can create a healthy relationship, you’ll seek out the best ways, or get assistance to find them.
If you BELIEVE that it’s a relationship worthy of your best efforts, then the respect shines through to your partner.
If you BELIEVE that you’re doing the best you can to continually nurture the best in yourself and your partner, you will!
Some Questions on BELIEVING
- Can you recall a time in your life when believing made all the difference to your success at something?
- What is it you believe about how relationships can be? Does that have a positive or a negative spin to the belief?
- How is your relationship unfolding?
- How much do you believe it can be successful?
- What one step could you take RIGHT NOW to improve your relationship?
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